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本帖最后由 austral-asian 于 2013-5-4 03:48 编辑
要么他不知道你的纠结情怀？如此纠结，是不容易真正HAPPY哦！
枫铃 发表于 2013-5-4 02:39
他比较无所谓的态度，买房或者租房都可以，我的纠结也怪不到他头上去。所以我说我有中年危机的倾向，这个危机跟是不是到了中年没有直接关系，尽管通常发生在中年。可能就是一种心理病症，有的人性格好的或许一辈子都不会有这个危机。其实很多人都会多少经历这么一个时期，感觉自己到了青春的尾巴、开始走下坡路、人生苦短应该及时行乐。主要表现是性情和三观发生比较大的变化，比如忽然不想承担太多责任，原来克勤克俭的生活一下发生转变，变得爱花钱，买衣服、首饰、豪车、整天想出去玩最好周游世界，对工作和其他COMMITMENT没有兴趣。我见过有人好好的房子住着满好，非要花大价钱装修，装修完了还是不开心干脆打算卖掉另买新的DREAM HOUSE；还有人干脆把老公也休了另找第二春。像那个电影AMERICAN BEAUTY里的那对夫妻就是这样，女的找了婚外恋，男的辞去公司高职去快餐店打工，还YY女儿的同学。这大概是比较严重和极端的CASE。
Midlife crisis is a term coined in 1965 by Elliott Jaques stating a time where adults come to realize their own mortality and how much time is left in their life.[1] A midlife crisis is experienced by many people during the midlife transition when they realize that life may be more than halfway over. Sometimes, a crisis can be triggered by transitions experienced in these years, such as andropause or menopause, the death of parents or other causes of grief, unemployment or underemployment, realizing that a job or career is hated but not knowing how else to earn an equivalent living, or children leaving home. People may reassess their achievements in terms of their dreams. The result may be a desire to make significant changes in core aspects of day-to-day life or situation, such as in career, work-life balance, marriage, romantic relationships, large expenditures, or physical appearance. |
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