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发表于 2009-9-1 19:48:25
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About education
I was born in 1970s' and grouped into cynicism generation which always have opposite views on the traditional stuff, certainly including education. Nowadays, many people believe one's success depends on the EQ and IQ of themselves. So education shoud theoretically focus on the brewing of EQ and IQ. Moreover, some people think EQ is more important than IQ and they allocate 70% successful reasons into EQ. We would unfold our discussion on the both facets of personality.
What's the core of EQ or what's the foundation of EQ for a person? I tend to identify the confidence as the most important character among mang EQ ingrediences. Because confidence is the origin of identity on people souls and spirits. Confidence first get youself acknowledge yourself in the universe and make you to have recognization from God like Adam and Eva wake up from unconciousness. So education on this aspect should raise children's beliefs and acknowlegement on themselvies. Unfortunately most of parents in china emphasize more hardship and difficulties than build up the internal confidence for their children. Chinese parents don't know the failure of living is impossible to damage the whole life of their children but the broken belief, like broken glass or crystal, couldn't be gathered into the original one. The right attitudes about education on self-belief should should be to cultivate and breed up positively children's self-conciousness and let the real living to consolidate it with parents' encouragement.
For IQ, comparatively simpler, it may be up to the talent of children. IQ education focus on the optional rights of children themselves and inspire their interests on specific area. Particularly for the creative ability of children, parents ought to give their children more chances to realize their dreams by themselves independently rather than impose their ideas and intentions on children.
In a word, be careful to face your children and your any unconcious action may ruin the original beautiful essence of human being we call humanity.
Thanks for your viewing on this, good luck! Continued tomorrow......... |
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