罗珠奉劝大家:向世界出发!
绝大多数人愿意过着四平八稳的生活,有一个美满的家庭,有一份踏实的工作,日复一日,年复一年,终于有一天退休了。中国人中有绝大多数,一生中没有也没有想过离开这片土地,就撒手人寰。辛苦挣来的钱,基本上都用于住房、教育、养老……。我的中学同学,十年前在某储蓄所工作,十年后还在那里工作,只不过有了丈夫孩子,人也发胖了。
而我从懂事起就不愿意过这种生活,我喜欢的人生是处处充满悬念和未知的人生。那一年,我拎着两个衣箱,在加拿大开始了新的人生。想起最初的欧洲移民来到美洲拓荒开垦,我已经觉得自己十分幸运。
落脚在温哥华,但是我还不甘心,不想让人对我说“你已经见识了加拿大了,”于是我又带着衣箱飞到了多伦多。我会住在哪里?我会遇到什么贵人?或者我会有什么样的浪漫艳遇?……。一想到这些我就兴奋无比。
还记得飞到埃及的那段日子,穿越了7000年的时空隧道,每天每夜都有让人心醉的滋味,第一次感受了被埃及人民崇拜的至尊享受。我想,人生原来可以如此丰富多彩,只要你敢于独自旅行和冒险!
还记得一个人来到伦敦,又前往爱丁堡,正是因为我不认识一个人,才让我倍感刺激。谁会出现在我的命运中?一个个悬念,让我每天都期盼明天的来临。
异域旅行,不需要雄厚的经济后盾,因为如果金钱太充裕,反而没有那种天塌下来当被盖的豪爽和刺激,而且上帝更喜爱敢于冒险并对生活充满爱心之人,我虽然四处流浪,至今没有经济困窘的情况出现!走到哪里,我的生存秘诀就是微笑,所以至今我遇到的全是帮助我的人。
活着的乐趣,对于我来说,不是吃吃喝喝,挣钱发财,而是多看看这个世界。在有限的人生中,见识不同的文化、景致和风俗,才不枉在这世上走一遭。奉劝朋友们,有了够买机票的钱,就向世界出发吧! 年轻的时候,一个人的时候,可以。。。
也曾经梦想过,但不能实现。。。故希望自己的孩子,以后能在梦想的时候,就有这个基础可以去做。。。 俺好艳羡你哦:-$ 原帖由 飞绢 于 2008-10-15 23:31 发表 http://www.ourdream.ca/forums/static/image/common/back.gif
年轻的时候,一个人的时候,可以。。。
也曾经梦想过,但不能实现。。。故希望自己的孩子,以后能在梦想的时候,就有这个基础可以去做。。。
只要你愿意,没有什么不可以得。我一样又阻碍我冒险的种种理由。 精彩的人生源于梦想的家园 人生就是一段旅程,希望我们在不同的道路上都能明了人生的真谛,殊途同归,活明白了自己! 俺现在有了孩子,再也没这么自由了:-( :-( :-( :-( :-( 『同意』 向世界出发吧! 有机会时会去看看. 原帖由 未飘落的雪 于 2008-10-16 13:55 发表 http://www.ourdream.ca/forums/static/image/common/back.gif
有机会时会去看看.
莫等闲! 虽然有时不太赞同LZ的某些观点,不过对LZ这个观点是赞同和支持的,也很羡慕你能拥有这样的生活方式,而没有(或者能够摆脱)包袱。
『加油』 很好,支持。
不安全的地方别去『呵呵』 原文的英文版,欢迎大家指正!
Most people prefer to live a steady life, with a perfect family and a stable job, day after day, year after year, until one day, they retire from their job.
Most of the Chinese people have never left or never thought about leaving this land till they pass away. All the money made with great efforts is spent on housing, education and self-support when they get old. A high school pal of mine who worked at a savings agency 10 years ago, now still works there, only with a husband and a kid added to her life, in addition to the extra weight she has put on.
But I have been unwilling to live this kind of life since I could remember. The life I dream to have is filled with suspense and uncertainties. So, a few years ago, I started a new life in Canada with two suitcases. Thinking of those early European immigrants who came to the new continent to cultivate this land, I felt I really was lucky.
I settled down in the beautiful and relaxing Vancouver, but I was not fulfilled. I didn't want anyone to tell me I had seen enough of Canada, so I flew to Toronto with my suitcases. Where was I going to stay? What good people was I going to run into? What romantic affairs was I going to have? Whenever I thought about those questions I really felt high.
I still remember the days I had in Egypt, after I traveled through a time and space tunnel that spanned across over 7,000 years. Every day and every night I was intoxicated. For the first time I had the privilege to be nearly worshiped by the people of Egypt. I figured, life could be this colorful, as long as you dared to travel alone and take risks.
I also remember when I flew to London and then headed for Edinburgh. Knowing nobody there pretty much excited me. Who was going to show up in my destiny? All the suspense motivated me to wait anxiously every night till tomorrow came.
Traveling overseas doesn't need a sound financial support, because the awareness of owning excessive financial resource may ruin the heroic and stimulating feeling of having the sky as my quilt and the earth my bed. And God favors those who are bold and loving, so even though I've been roaming around quite a bit, I have never gone through any financial crisis. My trick for surviving is smile. Therefore, all those I have encountered have been helpful to me.
The joy of living is, to me, not eating, drinking, working and making money, but seeing as much of this world as possible. You won't waste your lifetime if you have experienced various cultures, sights and lives. As long as you have enough money to buy a flight ticket, go ahead and see the world! 愿意怎么玩就怎么玩,只要你有玩的本钱,有人天生喜欢旅游,有人喜欢冒险,有人愿意花几万块钱买张CD听,人个有所好。 支持 小罗肯定有着跟传统中国人不太一样的家庭观念,我想。特别是对孩子。
另外,心态也比较年轻吧,像西方社会的大学刚毕业的心态;
不存钱,也是西方比较接受的观念; 欣赏你的微笑.:-) :-) :-) 还没孩子+不错的经济基础+开放的心态 = 今天潇洒的小锣
中国人三者皆备的,怕不到千分之一吧『呵呵』
俺就缺了2项『大汗』
所以就2字:『羡慕』 原帖由 gqyem 于 2008-10-17 10:39 发表 http://www.ourdream.ca/forums/static/image/common/back.gif
还没孩子+不错的经济基础+开放的心态 = 今天潇洒的小锣
中国人三者皆备的,怕不到千分之一吧『呵呵』
俺就缺了2项『大汗』
所以就2字:『羡慕』 ...
不同意这种看法。
大多数人认同与稳定不变的生活,正是因为他们考虑这个考虑那个,什么都割舍不下,其实我一样有太多牵挂的东西,只不过不公布罢了,家家都有一本难念的经啊! 原帖由 FCH 于 2008-10-17 09:19 发表 http://www.ourdream.ca/forums/static/image/common/back.gif
小罗肯定有着跟传统中国人不太一样的家庭观念,我想。特别是对孩子。
另外,心态也比较年轻吧,像西方社会的大学刚毕业的心态;
不存钱,也是西方比较接受的观念; ...
西方不存钱???哈哈,但凡是个人谁不希望能够存的住钱??而且能都盈余供储蓄起来的越多越好???
但是关键是大多数人存不住什么钱,每个月都花了——房子、车、高等教育、旅行、孩子、家庭……