几家欢喜几家愁啊！为自己和宝宝，加油！

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-4 10:01:23

到了Prince George这几天, 虽说是时差已经基本倒过来了。
但又开始辗转反侧，失眠了。。。我确定，这失眠与时差无关。

看到那么多的朋友发贴，庆祝短登，长登，生孩子，找到新工作，亲属团聚。。。我是真为他们高兴啊。
目前的我却更加不敢看，因为感受中还有“羡慕，嫉妒”。。。几家欢喜几家愁。

几天前我一个人上的飞机，看着旁边夫妇哄孩子玩，喂孩子食物的情景，
时而还能听见飞机上孩子的哇哇啼哭，我离我的宝宝却越来越远，
唯一能做的只是一阵阵心酸，啥呆呆的陷入沉思，或者尽量不去联想我的宝宝。

申请递出三年后，我的宝宝才出生。我人去哪里，都会不停牵挂宝宝。
可是为了将来，我们都付出了太多。。。
爸说，上次宝宝接了我的电话，就开始闹着要出去找妈妈，怕宝宝上火于是告诉他妈妈去给它挣钱买挖土机了。
宝宝不会说，其实我懂，无论任何人，任何玩具都比不上妈妈在身边。。。。。。。

不快的心情还得抒发出来，枫情是个好地方，不用担心被人会笑话，大家既相知又不需相见，
在外见面时看到的永远是坚强乐观的你，不会有人看出你也曾流泪。
情绪时好时坏，哭够了还得继续前行。。。。。。

来了才知道，其实加拿大人办公并不像在国内时了解的那样不近人情，
近期打算提出申诉了。祝自己好运！

lamjin · 发表于 2013-4-4 10:20:28

申诉？ what ？

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-4 11:20:16

Right.
去年BC省提名我雅思听力只差0.5，其他的都够分。据签理由就是这，我一直都难以启齿。

但愿BC省还是急缺这方面的人力，
但愿他们能看在我付出这么多已经走到这里的份上，
但愿他们是真正的办事不循规蹈矩。。。

那样我和孩子才能尽快团聚在这里。

Dawn · 发表于 2013-4-4 16:10:02

只要坚持，梦总会有一天成真的！祝你心想事成，早日与你的宝宝团聚！

枫铃 · 发表于 2013-4-4 21:32:59

当娘的确实不能和宝宝分开，加拿大也不是想象中的好，也不适合所有人，如果路很长很艰难，为什么不选择和宝宝在一起呢，时间长了，会生疏的。

世界上没有两全的事儿。

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-5 12:14:18

来到这里能够定居下来的人，应该都是付出过很多，克服了很多困难的。
有人说，“又没人请你来这里。。。”这句话好像给了我当头一棒

像前辈们学习，再不做爱哭鬼。

lhsh519 · 发表于 2013-4-5 15:53:53

加油才是王道

Dawn · 发表于 2013-4-5 17:09:55

理解楼主，此举也是不得已而为之啊！希望你的小宝宝长大些后会理解。既选择，就使自己快乐生活吧！祝楼主早日如愿！

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-6 06:40:45

谢谢鼓励，我一定会加油的。

最近一直就是上学这点事。生活在这个圈子里，每天只要一安静下来，脑子里老是英语不停的在转。
我想我是进入状态了。
Have a wenderful weekend!

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-8 04:52:26

Reminding me that I have an appoiintment with daycare center manager Spenser tomorrow 2PM to discuss about holding a seat for my child and I expect that they could give me a piece of paper which can prove that my child have hold a seat in their center, just Like an application form.
That should have been done 3 months ago, so that I should have taken my child with me to Prince George, my child sholdn`t talk to me like talk to a estranged mother recently.
I said something to him in the phone, and he also was told it was mum speaking. He just called me mum and said three times of "Mum, come ...."with his soft-voice, and run away soon, because he was busying with playing toys.
Mother told me that Junjun always say the words like" ...Mum left, Grandpa left, only Grandma dont leave"...

12580zhuque · 发表于 2013-4-9 16:31:52

孩子那么小，不带过去，母子分离，带过去，如果是一人带个孩子，更不容易。不如自己尽快适应，再接孩子团聚。祝楼主早日团圆！

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-30 05:33:49

Last Friday, I made a de-registration to our school and the reason was I missed my Child.
Our Operation Manager thought about that for only half a day, then she gave me a response that they agreed to delay my study semester from this Summer to Winter.
And the Residence Superviser and ESL teacher didn't hassled me too. Furthermore, they endorsed my idea of coming back to China for taking care of my child in this Summer.

I am thinking of my decision about leaving school at this time.
It was a kind of breakhearting to me. Does it mean that all my decisions leading up to my going to Canada were mistakes? Had the efforts to support my hopes and dreams failed?

I am hesitative and really need somebody to talk about this at this moment.

lamjin · 发表于 2013-4-30 06:06:47

这就是没有做好心理准备就来了，这边上学不好混的。

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-30 11:56:05

Actually, nobody can understand me and everybody around me advises me back.
It doesn't matter that I live in a room as small as 50sq.ft, the cold weather in PG, even the different culture.
I studied really hard because I think I should treasure this opportunity.
But sometimes, I feel guity to my child.
I thought that I can get through this before I came here. But,...

红酒 · 发表于 2013-4-30 11:59:20

别难过，一切都会好起来

Cathynee1121 · 发表于 2013-4-30 12:42:36

I have thought again and again,
This time, I am going back to China to get a Visa for my child in only several months, and come to Canada again before this September.
So, good luck to me!

zhangyl · 发表于 2013-4-30 21:07:26

Family is more important than anything else. Taking care o your baby first and taking him back to Canada are the good choice for you.

Good luck!

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